Carpool Confessions: Happy Privacy Day (Part 1)
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Sharon: Which is worse, someone reading your texts or seeing your screen time report?
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Son: Mom, I don't have a phone.
Blonde Girl: Screen time report.
Sharon: How much time a day?
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Blonde Girl: I don't know. Maybe like five, seven hours.
Sharon: Oh gosh. Okay.
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Woman with Glasses: Hmm I don't know.
Sharon: You might be one of those people that has their phone to their face.
Woman with Glasses: I often work on my phone as well.
Sharon: Yeah.
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Woman with Glasses: I mean, add that between the mindless scrolling and it's probably pretty I'm probably, you know, reducing my life expectancy with the number of hours on my phone.
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Sharon: Okay. All right
How How many minutes a day are you on your phone?
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Son: Well, if you let me get a phone, maybe I'd be able to tell you.
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Brunette Girl: Does it depend on who the person is who's reading this?
Sharon: Um, okay. Let's just say your parents, cuz those are presumably the most important people in your life
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Brunette Girl: I think that both, if they both saw those things I'd get in in trouble.
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Sharon: Yeah. So, like how much time you spent on your on my phone? Like I as well as the texts. Brunette Girl: Well, my texts, Well, yeah,
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cuz I had screen time and even I'm scared to look at my screen time cuz it's just so shameful probably. Sharon: How many hours a day?
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Brunette Girl: I don't even want to know.
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Sharon: Do you have limits? Like…
Brunette Girl: I used to. I used to. And I think that's why I get anxious because I'm like, "Oh my god, I'm going past my set limit."
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like everything's my mom's going to kill me. But then I figured out a way to change the password. So they know that
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though cuz it's I figured out the password.
Sharon: Be honest.
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Do you use the same password for at least two accounts?
Man with Glasses: Probably more.
Blonde Girl: Yeah.
Sharon: You know that's terrible, right?
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Blonde Girl: Yeah. But it's like school stuff, so
Man in Toque: I can't say that on camera.
Sharon: Well, that makes me concerned.
Man in Toque: Probably.
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Sharon: Oh jeez. Hi. Mhm.
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Do you know that's very bad? Why do you do it?
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Man with Glasses: Cuz when you're older, you can't remember all the passwords. So, it's much easier to remember one or two passwords.
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Woman with Glasses: I create crazy passwords.
Sharon: And do you remember them all?
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Woman with Glasses: I remember them because Well, I can't I'll tell you I can't tell you my secret.
Sharon: No, don't tell us your secret.
Woman with Glasses: I do write down a prompt.
Sharon: Mhm.
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Woman with Glasses: Only I could interpret the prompt. So if if something happens to me, my family is screwed cuz no one's would work it out.
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Sharon: So do you have like a black book prompt?
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Woman with Glasses: Oh, I have a couple. So some of them look like, you know, the scribblings of a beautiful mind.
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Sharon: Mean your parents do not use a very good password.
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Brunette Girl: They use the same password for everything.
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Sharon: Uh oh, we need to have a talk with them
Brunette Girl: My mom's going through menopause. Don't do that to her.
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Sharon: What is the most embarrassing thing that your phone knows about you?
Son: Mom, I don't have a phone.
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Sharon: Do you like throw in all sorts of your like embarrassing private symptoms on chat GPT?
Man in Toque: No.
Sharon: Oh,
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Man in Toque: never. No.
Sharon: Really
Man in Toque: Chat GPT is not a therapist. Chat GPT is not a therapist.
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Sharon: What is the most embarrassing thing your phone knows about you?
Blonde Girl: Probably like my random searches.
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Sharon: Mhm.
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Woman with Glasses: If anyone did a deep dive into my pictures, my photos, I got moles, I got body parts.
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Man in Toque: Well, I'm going to assume it knows everything about me because the phone is like at least my primary source of all electronic communications.
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Woman in Glasses: All medical appointment purposes.
Sharon: Oh,ok
Woman in Glasses: you know, for followup.
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Brunette Girl: Sometimes I like bring it with me on the toilet and like it's just like probably not the best thing ever. And I also like write like the silly things to my friends.
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Blonde Girl: They're just like,
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"Can I put the dishwasher on with like this in it or something like that?"
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Sharon: Oh, like, "What do you put in your dishwasher that you need to look at?"
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Blonde Girl: Like, random like stuff that doesn't have like a label on it like
Sharon: Oh, okay. That's the most embarrassing thing on your phone.
Blonde Girl: Maybe. I don't know.
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Sharon: Maybe you just don't want to tell us.
Blonde Girl: Who knows?
Sharon: Yeah.
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Brunette Girl: I think my phone knows too much about me.
Sharon: Too much about you.
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Brunette Girl: But then sometimes I feel like I also lie to my phone cuz sometimes I write things in my notes app and then I lie about it even though that's not true.
Sharon: Oh, like you try to trick your phone.
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Brunette Girl: Yeah. No, I try to trick myself
Sharon: Explain this to me.
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Brunette Girl: Like if I'm just like, "Oh, that really bothered me, but in reality it didn't."
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And I just like felt like it should have bothered me. I would write down it that bothered me to like kind of trick myself into making it bother me. Does that make sense?
Sharon: No.
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Man in Toque: I am also a pretty private person in terms of not wanting to leave a huge electronic footprint. So, I have disabled all of the tracking.
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Woman in Glasses: I've deleted them all. But are they ever really deleted? Are they really gone?
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Sharon: I mean, depends on the retention of those deleted photos.
Woman in Glasses: Yeah.
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Sharon: Yeah. It's photos that you don't necessarily want everyone to see.
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Woman in Glasses: No. Well, no one wants to see those photos.